Yes!! I've never tried to write her either, I don't think. And she served a great function in the story as well. And honestly, from book 1 I was a H/G shipper, but when it actually happened it was so wrong that I'm happy just to ignore it.

He would be an awesome folk singer. He could write angsty emo folk songs about the unfairness of stuff. And wear black turtlenecks.